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Question of Negativity

I have taken this negative meme from Dewey's blog. I thought I would give it a shot. My answers are not as good as hers! Feel free to do this meme and credit it to Dewey!


1. When you dislike a book, do you say so in your blog? Why or why not?

I do say so. As I spend a lot of time reading and analysing it, I do think I should mention the negative aspects too. However, I mention it why I did not like that particular book. There might be cultural reasons too. Some books simply do not work for me.

2. Do you temper your feelings about books you didn’t like, so as not to completely slam them? Why or why not?

I try to be objective in my dislike of a book. I reason out why I did not like it or why I left it after few pages. Certain books do not deserve to be read ever. I think, they do not deserve to be written!

3. What do you think is the best way to respond when you see a negative review about a book you enjoyed?

I think about it. Try to assimilate why the reviewer gave negative review. Not all of us can like all the books. Most read certain genres and other genres might not be to their liking. But I do not let it bother me much. I would rather judge it all by myself.

4. What is your own most common reaction when you see a negative review of a book you loved or a positive review of a book you hated?

Ignoring the negative reviews and still enjoy it for what it is. A case in pont is The Road by Cormac McCarthy. There have been few negative reactions. That has not detered me from completing it and wanting to re-read it after some time.

5. What is your own most common reaction when you get a comment that disagrees with your opinion of a book?

This has happened a few times. I somehow did not like The Namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri and I was kind of slammed for that. Just because I am an Indian, I don't have to like her book. I found it too snobbish for my taste and said so in my review. I couldn't identify with it.

6. What if you don’t like a book that was a free review copy? What then?

I don't get free copies of books that much for reviewing. But, I think one should be honest about that. Either way. One can always refuse not to review or email the author if it is ok to publish a negative review. I think, I would leave it on the author to decide. They do like to get some kind of reaction, even if a negative one. I would use my discretion.

7. What do you do if you don’t finish a book? Do you review it or not? If you review it, do you mention that you didn’t finish it?

I do not review books that I can't finish. I don't think I am doing any good to the author if I review it un-read.

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